Gordon lives in Vancouver; he does construction work and is 35.
He is amazing at loving me.
Him and I met online.. in a game..
It happened really fast. Him and I were just talking, I simply enjoyed talking to him. And we would spend hours chatting and laughing with each other. And then one night he told me ‘yea I got asked out today and I told the girl I was taken’.
And my red flags came up.
And I freaked.
I knew that was his way of telling me he was interested in me.
I was over Adam, and really was enjoying being single and not trying to replace Adam at all. I was happy just being by myself and flirting up a storm.
I don’t remember what I told him. I knew I liked that he said that about me, he planted the seed for me to think about being with him or not.
We chatted as much as possible. I think he lost a lot of sleep because of it.
A few days later I was in a skype chat full of people him and I both knew. Sex came up. And me, being single, didn’t feel the need to hold back. I really do enjoy talking about sex, so I did. He came on, and got upset. He would never ever try to control me in any way, but he asked me ‘if I were in a chat with all women and said the things you said, would you like it?’ and of course I would not.
But I told him I was not his girlfriend. And he can get upset all he would like and I understood, but him and I were friends. So, he asked me to be more.
And that is how we became official.
About 3 days later we exchanged I love you’s.
Everything with him happened really fast. And I am willing to go to Vancouver for him, I am willing to move out there. But I would like to take my time. I do not want to rush into anything. I am 21 years old. And Gord and I talk about marriage and things we are going to do with our kids and how we are going to raise them all the time. And I LOVE talking about that stuff, but I sort of want to really take my time in making it happen.
I have found my fairytale, and I am in no hurry to find out how it ends.