tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732287889338809458.post7729687560191850619..comments2023-03-30T19:10:32.521-05:00Comments on Lazy Days and Long Nights: long one.Jessicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12698599544648614166noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732287889338809458.post-39457659501905387392009-03-06T10:03:00.000-06:002009-03-06T10:03:00.000-06:00gah bar gar er. yea. i know i have to let him go. ...gah bar gar er. yea. i know i have to let him go. its hard. but you are right. <BR/><BR/>thank you for the advice, much appreciated.Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12698599544648614166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4732287889338809458.post-18870246503998185982009-03-06T09:34:00.000-06:002009-03-06T09:34:00.000-06:00You certainly have a lot going on in your life rig...You certainly have a lot going on in your life right now. But I can see a couple of things going on that you probably already realize yourself. <BR/>#1 - This is your first 'real' relationship. I remember mine*. The first is particularly hard because you haven't learned to walk the line between giving it your all and holding back everything. If he's been avoiding you for 2 weeks? Unless he gives a reason for the avoidance, it's time to let him go. This has happened to me more times than I can count.<BR/>*The only reason we broke up is that I moved to another state when I was 14. He and I reconnected on Facebook in November and have talked every day since. I never quit loving him, but now what we have is one of the best friendships I could ever imagine. 25 years later. Yeah, I'm 40.<BR/>#2 - Your parents haven't exactly been good role models for healthy relationships. Nuff said.<BR/>#3 - You are young. Enjoy it, but put everything you can into getting a good education. That should be your main focus. Because no matter how wonderful the eventual Mr. Wonderful will be, you need to be prepared to stand on your own. Things happen that you don't forsee, and if you have the confidence that you can take care of yourself? It makes so much difference in how you live your life.<BR/><BR/>Yes, I know I ramble. But these are just a few of the lessons I've learned, and am still learning.Miss Know It Allhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02800255176807152785noreply@blogger.com